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From Bambi dela Paz’s Blog - First hand account of the Slugfest at the Golf Course

December 28, 2008


 Please read the blog entry of bambi dela paz about the valley golf incident involving members of her family and mayor nasser pangandaman jr. and his bodyguards. spread the word. the more people know about this, the more shameful it becomes to people in power who have long forgotten about the power of public opinion. thanks!

 

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 26, 2008


The world has gone crazy.

So, I just had the worst day of my life.
At around 1:30 PM today, at Valley Golf and Country Club, Antipolo City, Mayor Nasser Pangandaman, Jr., Mayor of Masiu City, Lanao del Sur, his father, Secretary Nasser Pangandaman of the Department of Agrarian Reform, and company, beat my defenseless 56-year-old dad and my 14-year-old brother to a pulp because of some stupid misunderstanding on the golf course.

This is a golf course. I have been a golfer all my life, and I have never seen anything like this. NOTHING. This is hard to comprehend. And it happened to my own father and my own brother too. Right in front of my eyes.

My brother and I were playing golf at the South Course of Valley. We were on the 3rd hole, and we see two golf carts going past us, overtaking our flight, and setting up to tee off on the next hole. My dad goes up to them and asks them why they would do that, why they would overtake us without even asking for our permission. Golf etiquette 101. One of the guys says that they’re with the flight in front of us. (So what? That doesn’t give them the right to just pass us WITHOUT asking.) So, we go to the 5th hole. The flight behind us catches up with us, and asks us what caused the hold up. We said that this flight just slipped in front of our flight. So we complained to the marshall. We play the 5th hole and walk towards the next hole, where there is a teehouse, and both the flights in front of us were there, talking with the marshall. The mayor of Masiu City, Lanao del Sur talks with my dad. Things get heated up. Voices were raised. But never, in my wildest dreams, did I ever imagine that someone would pull out a punch. Apparently not. He attacks my father. His flightmates, maybe 2 or 3 of them, rush to his aid and beat up my father. My 56-year-old father. My younger brother and I could not just watch. We rushed to break the fight. My younger brother pleads to the mayor to please stop it. To not hurt my dad. To just stop. His words still ring through my head…“Sorry na po, sorry na po…tama na…tama na po…” With his hands in front of his chest in a praying position. PLEADING. The mayor socks him in the face. My brother defended himself. My dad is still on the ground getting clobbered. My brother is the same way. I try to stop the fight, but all I can do is stop one person. There were 4 or 5 of them attacking now.

Someone breaks up the fight. I thought it was all over. The mayor shouts to his caddy: “Hindi nila kami kilala! Sabihin mo nga sa kanila kung sino ako!” And believe me, I had no idea who this person was. But now I know. He’s the person who, with 4 other men, beat up my 56-year-old father and my 14-year-old brother. He’s the person who sacks a pleading 14-year-old kid in the face. He’s a person who, I am sure, is gonna rot in hell.

I lash out, but my dad held me back. I was screaming my lungs out, shouting to this mayor, telling him about what he had done. I said:“Nakakahiya kayo. Singkwenta’y sais anyos ang tatay ko. And kapatid ko kakatorse anyos. Anong ilalaban nila sayo?”

The mayor looks at my brother, point to his face, and says, “Tatandaan kita!” And he tells me that my brother has a bad attitude and that I need to watch him. WHAT THE HELL?! So, my brother’s bad for defending his father?!

We leave. We walk to the clubhouse to file a complaint. My brother asks for a doctor. My dad could barely walk. Their group comes to the clubhouse, sees my brother. Once again my brother pleads, says sorry, and is crying. He was CRYING, for crissakes. But no. The relentless mayor still punches him in the face, and then sees my dad and goes after my dad again. Him and his friend pull my dad to the ground, pulls at his feet, and steps on him like he’s dirt. I run to him and try to hold him back, holding him back by his shirt, while this other guy and this girl tries to stop me. She tells me to just stop it. I scream in her face “they’re beating my father up and you want me to stop?!” I pull at his shirt–I don’t let go. All I can see was my dad being trampled on. I didn’t even see my brother getting beat up.

People pull them away. I get my dad, and I saw my brother. His right ear was bleeding. I freaked out. I told the receptionists to bring my brother to the clinic. I pull my dad away. People were separating us.

My mom and my older brother come. I tell her Bino’s right ear is bleeding. They both look like they could kill. My dad holds my brother off, I hold off my mom. When I finally got my mom under control, my older brother gets away and I hold him off. Two of the mayor’s bodyguards pull out guns. I embraced my brother from the back, just holding him back, crying. The receptionists came to us, crying, hugging me, my dad, and my mom, whispering to us to just leave. “Maam, umalis na po kayo, may mga baril sila…Maam…umalis na po kayo please…”

I am pretty sure the Secretary of DAR did not take part in the fight, but he just watched all this happen. He watched two of his sons, as we figured out, the other guy was his son, too, beat up my father and my 14-year-old brother. He didn’t do anything to stop it. And this person is what now? A cabinet member. A politician.

Sounds like something out of a movie, doesn’t it? But this is what happened. TODAY. The day after Christmas. To my family. And all I ask for is JUSTICE. The people at Valley Golf did not seem to want to help us. None of the security guards even tried to stop the fight. Right in the clubhouse. I came back after the fight was over and talked to the receptionists. They say they did not see anything. The general manager of Valley Golf would not give us the names of the men who made my brother’s ear bleed. It took him an hour. Maybe even more than that. He seemed to not want to help us. Because, we were against the SECRETARY OF THE DEPARTMENT OF AGRARIAN REFORM and the MAYOR OF MASIU CITY, LANAO DEL SUR. They were all scared.

The world has gone crazy. Two politicians beat up a defenseless 56-year-old father and his 14-year-old son. At a golf course. I swear to God, I thought golfers were decent people. You would think politicians were decent people. I guess not. I guess they gang up on 56-year-old men and beat up pleading 14-year-old kids.

Please pray for my dad, my brother and for my whole family. Please pray that we get JUSTICE. Oh God, please, give these people what they deserve.

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Previous Comments

Dear Bambi,

This is the first time, I read a blog when anthony of abs cbn announced that you have a blog.
I am really in rage after i read your blog, you are right this people deserved not ony to rot in hell but to rot in jail. They should be kick out in ther respective position as a secretary of DAR and Mayor. The President should be ashame hiring this kind of person who tolerates his son doing a crime. And the people Masiu should wake up and realize that their mayor is cruel and son of a bitch.
We pray that you will have justice.

Posted by FELIX TIU at December 29, 2008, 7:39 am

I’M PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY’S SAFETY.IT SEEMS LIKE YOUR GOING UP AGAINST A GOLIATH BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER DAVID BEAT GOLIATH…HOPE YOU GET THE JUSTICE YOU DESERVE….

Posted by JOEL at December 29, 2008, 7:40 am

I’ve heared and seen these news.and I’m really saddened by what happened to u’r father and ur 14 year old brother.these kind of people surely can do this.because they are a politician people.this people can lie,and much worse they’ll use their connections to white wash this investigation.but i’ll always pray 4 u and ur family for the justice you deserve.GOD IS WITH YOU!

Posted by rc at December 29, 2008, 7:41 am

mahiya naman kayong mga taga Valley Golf, mga wala kayong mga bayag! all you have to do is be truthful, thats all we ask! dapat sibaking yang sin Sec sobra na mga pamilya niya!.. gumalaw tayo BAYAN!

Posted by Wil Estrada at December 29, 2008, 12:33 pm

Mommy, that’s horrible. Can Mayors really get away with such crude behavior??

Posted by Estelle at December 29, 2008, 2:34 pm

Pride can ruin a good memories, Both parties have pride….What Happen Now… This will settle in court… This is a waste of time for everybody….. At the end of the day… DAR already ask for an apology…. They admit their own wrong doing…. Accept the apology and move on…. Goodluck

Posted by Toto at December 29, 2008, 2:57 pm

My family in NJ and the Philippines will pray for you and your family and for justice to be done. More importantly, I pray that the Philippines will be spared from more politicians like them and instead for REAL leadership to emerge. It is possible.

God bless you and the fruits of your labor.

Posted by Dawn at December 30, 2008, 12:30 am

I support you.

Posted by abby at December 30, 2008, 8:29 am

i was in tears upon reading your blog… it really heat a mark inside me… this peaple dont deserve to be public servants… they will have their day in court if not with God….

We are not afraid of you Mayor…. sontukan lang game kami…

anton vidamo
Bacolod city

Posted by anton vidamo at December 30, 2008, 8:34 am

Policitians should have high regard to the people they serve and not the other way around. They eat using the taxes paid by the common people. The politician should be tried in court and the judge should not give them any leniency for their action. If they can do it to you, they can certainly do it to any of us. The body guard is for defense not offense. It becomes their private army when it is used for offense. We have known that from experience during the dictator regime. We should all stand and condemn this act.

Posted by Severino Monje at December 30, 2008, 8:41 am

I hope you don’t mind… I copied your blog entry and passed it on to my friends…I just can’t help but feel angry and sad at the same time of what our Public Officials has become…so much power to abuse their authority and to humiliate themselves publicly with brutal use of force…I am not really surprised though that “private armies” are still existing in our society…That mayor may had a heated argument with your old man and brother, but that does not give him the right to hit someone else especially a kid and an old man like your father.(not only once but twice!!!)Your dad was right. I was watching the news yesterday, IT WAS AN OVERKILL…
I will pray that your family will get to the bottom of this…I hope your father and brother will get the justice they deserve for this inhumane acts from our so-called revered PUBLIC OFFICIALS…

Posted by jo at December 30, 2008, 8:54 am

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