Pangandaman denies starting the brawl
December 29, 2008The slugfest at the Valley Golf and Country Club in Antipolo between the families of Agrarian Reform Secretary Nasser Pangandaman and businessman Delfin dela Paz had a new twist as the Secretary insists in media interviews that his son was attacked first by the 56-year old businessman and his son.
”There really was a brawl. They did punch each other, but it was De la Paz who attacked Nasser Jr. by hitting him with an umbrella,” the Agrarian Reform Secretary said. He said his sons will press counter charges of physical injuries against De la Paz, who filed a complaint with the Antipolo police on Friday, the day the incident transpired.
The Cabinet Secretary, recently appointed to the government peace panel in talks with the MILF, averred that contrary to reports that he was passive during the incident, he was actually the one who pacified both camps. He also denied that their bodyguards intervened in the slugfest, citing a golf course rule against bodyguards on the golf course.
Meanwhile, the management of Valley Golf has placed Agrarian Reform Secretary Pangandaman, his son Mayor Nasser Jr, and businessman Delfin de la Paz under temporary preventive suspension. Nasser Jr is actually not a member of the club but was there as a dependent of the Secretary.
My take on the matter? Don’t ever hit a high-powered mayor on the head with your umbrella. That can make him, his siblings, and his bodyguards hit you and your son senseless, in the name of course, of self-defense. Come on, Secretary Pangandaman. Is this what you’re in power for? Apologize, make amends, and drop the charges. As a Mindanao leader, you can easily put this behind you. But as a Cabinet Secretary? What you did, rightly or wrongly,and the steps you plan to take to correct it, eventually reflects on your real boss - not just GMA, but us taxpayers as well. This incident is eating up not only your political capital, but hers as well. Humility in life, most especially among people in power, is a virtue. In less than two years, you’ll just be one of us, ordinary mortals. Rise to the occasion by bending real low.
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This is the reality in the Philippines. Personnel in power together with their family and friends feels that they can do anything. I hope and pray they get what they deserve.
Another example of abuse…look at government personnel who uses their authority to weave of the streets during rush hours or when there is heavy traffic…they feel they own the road.
Posted by rdc at December 29, 2008, 9:09 pmEven if somebody else started the fight, who has the power? How bad can he be hurt with their body guards around? I believe his ego was hurt and that is why senseless violence began. It goes to show how their mind works under extreme situation. We need better thinkers in office. Gone are the days, that with great minds comes with great responsiblity and tolerance and less ego.
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After the Dela Pazes had aired out in news blitzkrieg their side of the story, the Pangandamans have come out with a knee-jerk rejoinder on the issue — claiming it was the senior Dela Paz or the daughter who started the melee by hitting one of the Pangandamans with a golf umbrella… Anyone with a common sense wouldn’t dare do such provocation against a person, much less a group of male (factors), surrounded by an omnipresent, intimidating cordon of pea-sized-brain and fully-armed bodyguards — whose purpose is to rabidly, blindly serve their handlers who feed them, and to do so regardless of consequences and at all costs since they anyway shall be covered with the extended mantle of impunity. That’s how it operates here in this Banana Republic. The people involved in the fracas are neither idiots nor weaklings, regardless of how they overnight image themselves as the victims. Stop playing possum, all of you - media practitioners and bloggers included. They are no strangers to pelf, power and influence either not to immediately distinguish their own kind. The filthy rich jealously, immediately dislike in their conceited viewpoint of exclusive, monopolized self-importance their own kind. Self-love breeds contempt against all others. I also have second thoughts entertaining the side-track comments of the Pangandamans that the Dela Pazes “acted as though they owned the territory (Valley Golf).” The bone of contention was but a “few minutes of ownership” of “privilege playing rights” of Hole Number Three at the time of the dispute — where the Dela Pazes contend that it was theirs in physical possession of at the time; while the Pangandamans insisted it was theirs in the first place as they were merely lagging behind a group that was already playing holes far in advance. Both parties argued for preference and priority — with or without advertence to Golf Manual 101. That was the deal breaker that broke the spirit of the Holidays. “Love of self, amor propio, ako muna bago kayo.” Can’t and don’t blame anyone — people who do so get crucified for doing right. Flashbacks of the Rolito Go parking slot shooting and that of the similar Loyola Cemetery parking fight episode. What I am certain of is that somebody burst a short fuse, and one act of intemperance and inconsideration paved the way for more violence and arrogance. The circus is now in town. The parties involved were supposed to play the gentleman’s game of golf — but, like overgrown brats as they all are really, did some other silly, childish thing that has found them now in the limelight of exchanging brickbats in full view of the nation. Regardless against the backdrop of what is supposed to be the Happy Holidays. I leave you to elevate your love of self in full view of the amused public. We can use some pointers for life. Be that as it may, lessons shall be learned the hard and painful way for all parties concerned. Good luck on this episode where only the devil gets to win! - JVC
Posted by Jonathan Castaneda at December 29, 2008, 12:41 pm